A Simple Spell for Problematic People

Blessed be, sweet ones!

Wicca is a wonderful path to walk, & the journey is full of joy. However, Wicca does not remove our obstacles, since free will is always in play, much is beyond our control as individuals, & obstacles can be our greatest teachers.

Often the obstacle in question is not a situation, but rather a problematic person. Whatever the situation, know that this spell can & will work for you on several levels:

• You will transform your perception, transforming your experience & yourself.
• Having transformed yourself, you will be open to the best guidance from your highest self.
• You will transform the situation in the eternal now, instantaneously freeing all people involved to receive the best guidance from their highest selves.

Even though Wicca does not magically remove all obstacles, so that we can just sail right on through life, it does offer us a very effective practice of transformation through the affirmation, visualization, & peaceful creation found in spell casting.

Offering peace, I extend to you this effective, easy, simple spell to help you enjoy life more & to receive wisdom on your joyful journey.

Transformation Spell for a Problematic Person

Materials Needed

• 1 white tea light or 1 small white votive candle
• a dab of rose oil, rose water, rose fragrance, or your favorite perfume
• a pinch of nutmeg
• a pinch of peppermint
• a bowl of 1 cup water

Directions

Cast your sacred circle, calling in especially the harmonious, white, bright, perfectly peaceful Light of the Universe.

• Give thanks aloud that this person is bringing you the opportunity to grow. This may be difficult, but if you let go of all attachment to the outcome, letting the Observer in you see both of you as 2 individuals doing your level best, & letting yourself view this problematic person as blind, confused, & deaf to love, then you will be able to generate the compassion necessary to experience true gratitude. Stay in this gratitude & just be with it for a moment.
• Ask the Universe, the Lord & the Lady, or any other guiding consciousnesses with whom you work ~ especially your highest & best self ~ what pearl of wisdom lies at the heart of this interrelationship. Listening for the answer, you will hear it clearly.
• Give thanks aloud for this wisdom, & be with this new insight quietly for a while, allowing any feelings to come up & clear away into the Light of the Universe. When you are left only with gratitude, then proceed.
• Speaking to the problematic person's highest & best self, the bit that's connected to everything that is, say, "Thank you for your teaching. Thank you for your wisdom. Now that you have given your gift, I ask that you join me in entering greater Light, peace, happiness, joy & compassion in a spirit of warm-hearted cooperation. I am sorry that things went badly. I love you. Please forgive me for not seeing your gift earlier. Thank you for being in my life in this way. May you now continue to be in my life in a loving, peaceful way, or may you continue on your journey. Know that, either way, you are loved, you are lovable, & you are love. That is your nature. So it is spoken, & so mote it be; & so it is."
• Take your rose solution & add it to the water, saying, "Thank you, Universe, for love. May it be present in all interactions, all thoughts, all words, & all deeds."
• Take your pinch of nutmeg & add it to the water, saying, "Thank you, Universe, for harmony. May it sweeten life in all ways always."
• Take your pinch of peppermint & add it to the water, saying, "Thank you, Universe, for protection & guidance. May these allow only right action & integrity in life."
• Stir the water with your finger, feeling only love, peace, & resolution of all relationships.
• Speak into the water lovingly, "Gratitude, love, gratitude. I give thanks now that this situation is transformed into perfect peace."
• Take your water to the bath, draw a bath, add it, & soak in your love, harmony, protection, & guidance. When you are done, sit in the bath as every last drop drains out. Get out, get into your comfies, & just bask, relax, & enjoy yourself.
• Let your candle burn itself out, knowing that its bright glow is just a small representation of the greater Light now shining in you.

© 2011 Lady Enchantee © 2011 Charmed Life